Looking back I can almost pinpoint the moment I became aware it was Liam’s intention to break me … He criticised me continuously and had an opinion on every aspect of my life. I felt slightly awkward as the disparaging remarks about my husband came thick and fast and momentarily I felt the need to defend him … In hindsight of course I see it was a deliberate ploy to distance me further from my husband and draw me closer to him …
My dependancy on Liam grew more and more each day until out of nowhere my OCD returned and I’d make deals with myself … extensively overthinking to ensure the thing I dreaded most would not occur … persistently washing and scrubbing my hands … repeating things over and over in my head … and a deep depression, a feeling of hopelessness and inability to motivate … but still I convinced myself only Liam could make it better, even though it was Liam that was causing it …
It was just before the first images arrived that Liam gave me a lesson in creating folders … Of course he was only watching his own back but at the time he described it as something exclusive to us … something we could both enjoy …
I probably have all the conversations we shared in these folders. This is one very early on in our “relationship” …
Liam: It would be wonderful to have the privacy and dare I say the intimacy of being able to chat on Skype or Yahoo. I’d love to find a way of us being able to share with eachother. Have you an idea even as to where I’m coming from or how I feel about being this close to you?
Jo: Perhaps you could elaborate slightly?
Liam: I suppose the real question is are you comfortable with it?
Jo: Comfortable with what? I’m not on Skype or Yahoo. How does it work?
Liam: The Yahoo one is just a chat site. Perhaps easier to keep private if you want that.
Jo: Private in what way?
Liam: Theen there is MSN Messenger which probably comes with your computer. You’re probably in the same boat as me in that finding space and time isn’t the easiest thing in the world.
Jo: Would that involve us seeing and hearing eachother or just typing?
Liam: Jo, please don’t think I just want to use Skype or Yahoo so I can see you. I don’t care what you look like. You’re just someone who has impacted on my life in the most beautiful way.
Jo: Forgive the delay … just had to catch my breath there for a moment … You must understand, I’m at a loss as to how to receive compliments … its been such a very long time … You have such a powerful way with words … I’m almost unsure how to answer …
Liam: Remember this Jo, I only say what I mean and I mean what I say. I’m thrilled you found my words powerful. I don’t know how you did it and I don’t care but you have decorated my life. I hope that doesn’t sound stupid.
Jo: Of course not. I’m very flattered.
Liam: You’re beautiful. Am I treading in an area I shouldn’t tread?
Jo: You are very sweet.
Liam: Jo, you didn’t answer the last bit of the question. Maybe you shouldn’t.
Jo: xx
Liam: xxxx
Liam: Jo, you still didn’t answer. I miss you already.
Jo: I’m still here.
Liam: Can you stay with me for a while?
Jo: Of course, it will be my pleasure.